Jin Zhiying began to doubt her decision. She was very sad and lost her courage. She told her supervisor that her child was not taken care of and could not return to the workplace. When Jin Zhiying rejected the supervisor, she suppressed her own feelings again, she rejected her own desires. It was another night of endless physical and mental exhaustion from taking care of the children. Jin Zhiying went to the living room and had a conversation with her husband. When Jin Zhiying mentioned that she could not go out to work, her husband said, "Nor Zhiying, you can rest well!" Jin Zhiying began to respond to her husband: "Is childcare a break?",
I can't help but wonder if you are like a mother-in-law and don't want me to go back to work in the company?", "Are you regretting that you want to take parental leave? "I don't believe it anymore", "Stop talking about me, I don't believe it at all", "I can't help whatsapp list but speculate, you and my mother-in-law are the same as everyone in my family, it's none of my business anyway", "Only me Alone at war!" At this time, her husband Dai Xian said, "Jiying, calm down and listen to me, didn't I ask you to see a psychiatrist?" "You are sick now..." I think our society must answer Jin Zhiying honestly: "Yes, we will feel more comfortable."
Seriously, let's not pretend, we don't treat mother as a "person", but only as a "tool". What I don't understand is that any set of social relations in the process of gender interaction makes a woman "sick", and then says to the woman, "You are sick, you don't know you are sick, you want to Go to see a doctor, and I have registered you." When she was "sick", everyone seemed to realize that the bits and pieces of her past treatment, those interactions (sexism) that were taken for granted in daily life, were an unintentional oppression. Then Jin Zhiying felt self-blame to her husband Zheng Daixian at the same time, and blamed herself for being "ill" for causing her husband's troubles. "I don't even know I'm sick", which pushes Jin Zhiying to be a "considerate" and "self-blaming" woman's personal characteristics. Because of Jin Zhiying's self-blame, her family and those watching the movie may feel the love for Zhizhiying.